Exploring Sadomasochism

We tend to see certain images over and over in popular media: sadists who are cold, detached, brutal; masochists who are self-sabotaging and weak. As kinksters we know there are many more ways to be both of these things, but what are they and how do you figure out which fits you best? What is so fun about playing with pain?
Are you someone who likes pushing people emotionally and seeing their face squirm, or would you rather hit hard and ask questions later? Do you want to be quickly beaten into submission, or strung out for a long time before you get what’s coming to you? Is your inner sadist a schoolyard bully or a strict interrogator? As a masochist are you a pathetic punching bag or a steadfast devotee?

In this workshop, we will explore ways to find out what things really delight you about sadomasochism (from either side of it). Once we’ve identified these things, how do we integrate them into our self image? What does it say about us if we get turned on by torture? Discussion will include ways to affirm yourself, ask for support, and still maintain your power as a player.

Details

• Date and Time: February 19th, 6.30pm
• Doors open 30min prior to the event
• Duration: ~2.5h
• Fee: $35/person (low barrier options available at the door)
• Prerequisites: None
• Material to bring: Note taking materials
• For individuals or pairs: Any Constellation welcome
• Who is this for: Queer and Friends

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Each participants needs a completed release of liability (“waiver”)

Tickets

Fineprint

• Accessibility: 

Studio Allegory is on the ground floor and there are no steps anywhere in the space. There is a single washroom for all with a handle bar and an air hand dryer. We have unscented soap, and we run an industrial air purifier automatically. Studio Allegory has a kitchen corner with a kettle and a coffee maker, as well as a mini fridge and a microwave. Studio Allegory also has a quiet room equipped with fidget toys, colouring books, blankets, noise cancelling earmuffs, and stuffed animals. Upon request we can provide closed captions for our workshops running on a screen. We have masks for a small donation. 

• Cancellation and refund policy:

If Studio Allegory has to cancel an event, we will either refund ticket holders or transfer tickets to similar events in the future, depending on the wishes of the ticket holder. 

Cancellation by participants: Cancellation before 48h prior to the start of the event entitles the ticket holder to a full refund. Between 48h and the start of the workshop, we can provide a partial refund (50% minus payment processing fees.) or transfer of the ticket to a similar event in the future.

No refund or transfer can be offered for no-shows or cancellation after the event has started.